Adolescence-development, Just How Sexually Mature are You?

Adolescence-development and sexual maturity in a relationship is not just a matter of age, nor is it simply a matter of experience.

Answering these questions may tell you something about yourself in a relationship and analyzing your scores might be an educative exercise, helping to broaden your outlook and sharpen your social skills.

There are two sections to the questionnaire - one to be answered by you and the other by your spouse (assuming that your spouse is of the opposite sex)Since the two forms consist of roughly parallel items it is possible for you to compare yourselves in youradolescence-development and sexual maturity If your partner is not available, or unwilling to answer the questions, you could amuse yourself by completing it on their behalf,imagining what they would answer to each question

1. A healthy bank account
2. A good body
3. An ambition to realize his maximum potential

2. If you felt you have a sexual problem, what would you do?

1. Write to Dear Pastor in the Sunday Magazine
2. Consult your best friend
3. Raise it directly with your partner

3.What do you think impresses a man most in a relationship?

1. Large breasts
2. A good homemaker
3. High intelligence and sense of humour

4. What turns on a man the most in a relationship?

1. A delicious home-cooked meal
2. Stockings and suspenders
3. A woman who knows what she has got and know how to use it.

5. How do you react if your partner is chatting up other women?

1. Tell them he wears dentures and a hairpiece
2. Make a scene and take a taxi home
3. Let him play, after all it is you he loves

6. How often do you flatter your man on his appearance?

1. Never, he is big-headed enough already
2. Only in reciprocation, when he has said something nice about me
3. You are constantly appreciative that he take an interest in the way he looks

7. What do you do if your partner is too tired to get turned on?

1. Tell him how you think the relationship is coming to an end
2. Drool over a TV star to make him jealous
3. Use all your skills to relax him physically and mentally until he cannot resist any longer

8. Do you prefer relationship with older men?

1. Certainly, especially the size of their wallet
2. If there is nothing else around
3. Age is immaterial, what matters is the person

9. If you accidentally become pregnant for someone you love, would you:

1. Demand that he marry you at once
2. Have an abortion until the time for a lasting relationship
3. Have his "love child" and feel proud and happy about it.

10.You make your man his favorite food when:

1. You are angling for a new dress
2. You have a confession to make
3. You want to specially please him

11. Do you think sex is directly linked with romance?

1. You would rather have pure romance any time
2. Good sex only follows a romantic interlude in any relationship
3. It is impossible to distinguish them if you love the man you have sex with

12. If you have been with a man for several years, which of the following would apply to your sex life?

1. You would not bother about sex any more
2. It would be up to him to make approaches if he wanted it.
3. It takes two to tango: you would make every effort to make sex exciting and imaginable.

13. If your lover reaches orgasm quickly and does not satisfy you, do you"

1. Give up the relationship,
2. Go to a sex therapist to learn the "squeeze technique".
3. Let him come quickly and turn him on a second time when he can concentrate on satisfying you.

Men

1. Virginity
2. A voracious sexual appetite
3. A generous spirit

2.If you had a sexual problem, who would you discuss it with first?

1. Your mate in the pub
2. The family doctor
3. Raise it directly with you

3. What do you think impresses a woman most in a relationship?

1. Fast driving
2. Sexual prowess
3. Considerate attention

4. What's the best way to turn a woman on?

1. Turn out the lights and start groping her
2. Blow on her neck and whisper her name passionately
3. Forget the ploys and be sensitive about her feelings.

5. How do you react if your partner spends a lot of time with other men?

1. Forbid her to see them again
2. Try to tag along whenever possible
3. Feel flattered that she is popular yet loves you best

6. How often do you compliment your partner on her appearance?

1. You seldom look at her
2. You comment when you particularly like or dislike something
3. You frequently make a point of finding something upon which to compliment her.

7. How do you behave when you are feeling sexy and your partner is not in the mood?

1. Throw a tantrum and accuse her of being frigid
2. Go off and read some sexy books
3. Treat her with gentle, loving patience.

8.What would you do if you had cheated on your lover?

1. Find an excuse to be angry with her so as to justify your unfaithfulness
2. Refrain from mentioning the incident so as not to hurt her feeling
3. Confess and reassure her that it was not important to you.

9.The lady you love thinks marriage is outdated. Would You:

1. Think her immoral and outrageous.
2. Maintain separate lives and spend time together
3. Be delighted to live together free and happy.

10. What is your attitude towards contraception?

1. It is a woman's problem because men do not get pregnant anyway.
2. You always carry condoms for your own protection.
3. You would not sleep with a woman without discussing your joint responsibility.

11.When do you give your partner flowers?

1. When you are guilt-ridden and want to make up.
2. On birthdays and anniversaries
3. When the mood takes you to make her happy.

12. If your lover had an accident or an illness that prevented a normal sex life, how would you react? You would

1. Sympathize but leave her for another relationship
2. Feel cheated and sorry for yourself.
3. Find new ways to enjoy each other.

13. What would you do if you were sexually propositioned by an under-aged girl?

1. Take advantage and hope to get away with it.
2. Tell her parents about it and suggest a good reprimand might help her to learn self-control
3. Kindly explain to her why you must not succumb.

1. Light a cigarette
2. Fall asleep immediately.
3. Continue to caress your partner lovingly

Your Adolescence-development Scoring

Give yourself three points for each "c" answer, two point for each 'B' answer, and one for each 'A' answer. Add up your scores to give a total of somethingbetween zero and 39

30-39 - You are a very sophisticated lover, considerate and understanding of the opposite sex. Your Adolescence-development and sexual maturity is right up there, not a great deal that anyone could teach youabout how to conduct your love life in a relationship, and you should not be short of adoring company

17-29 - You are reasonable competent and adult in your conduct of your love life and your relating to the opposite sex. However, you could probably improve your sensitivity and manners in some areas if you aspire to move in the most sophisticated circles. - Although some of the answers given by the authors of this quiz as being the most desirable might be open to argument, a look back over your answers might help you to locate your deficiencies

10-19 - You are either an adolescent or rather naive where the opposite sex is concerned. Most people would regard you as an immature and unsatisfactory lover, though a few might be attracted by your rather childish approach to love in relationship.

0-9 - Your attitude is positively embryonic. No reasonable person would agree to a second date let alone contemplate developing a lifetime relationship with you. We suspect you were just fooling with the quiz, but if not you should seek professional help.

Your Health Listen to the experts Fight for your love. You can't avoid conflicts, but you can handle it successfully Sex matters; couple time matters even more. Spend quality time together and better sex life will develop Sex: Just do it. Have sex even when you don't want to Never underestimate the power of a compliment. Every day find something nice to say to your partner Listen more, talk less. Communication is 80 percent listening and 20 percent talking. How to be a couple and still be free. Give the love you want to get. Don't wait on your partner, be the first to offer the olive branch. Don't knock it till you've tried it...twice. Try being adventurous in bed. Even if you don't like something and your partner want to experiment, give it at least two chances before you give up on it—it may grow on you! Watch your words, you may trip over them. When you're tired or frustrated, it's easy to slip into being critical of your partner. For things to change you have to change. In most relationships, we think, I'm right, you're wrong, and I'll try to convince you to change. Treat your love like a cherished friendship. The happiest couples relate to each other with respect, affection, and empathy Sweep those little problems under the rug, or better yet, out the door. It really is okay to drop certain subjects and not even come back to them. People think this means you're avoiding key issues. But for everyday little things, successful couples agree to ignore the small problems and enjoy life together.

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